Comments on: mind games http://swampwaterdebutante.com/?p=1261 hooper, knitter, geek, neighborhood eccentric and potty-mouthed wonder Mon, 30 Aug 2010 18:31:15 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.9.2 hourly 1 By: Melissa http://swampwaterdebutante.com/?p=1261&cpage=1#comment-3232 Melissa Wed, 30 Dec 2009 07:10:37 +0000 http://swampwaterdebutante.com/?p=1261#comment-3232 Not only am I going to therapy myself, but I'm also doing my practicum for my marriage and family therapy license. That doesn't necessarily mean I know what I'm talking about, but it gives maybe a bit of credibility. First of all, voice your concerns to your therapist and have her explain why she wants to work on more stuff. Therapists are supposed to look for things that may trigger you into "relapse" as it were or things that may be hindering other parts of your health that you may not even be aware are getting in the way. If you've talked it over and you still feel totally done, assert your decision in a way that shows your growth and go for it. But mostly be honest and voice yourself. Not only am I going to therapy myself, but I’m also doing my practicum for my marriage and family therapy license. That doesn’t necessarily mean I know what I’m talking about, but it gives maybe a bit of credibility. First of all, voice your concerns to your therapist and have her explain why she wants to work on more stuff. Therapists are supposed to look for things that may trigger you into “relapse” as it were or things that may be hindering other parts of your health that you may not even be aware are getting in the way. If you’ve talked it over and you still feel totally done, assert your decision in a way that shows your growth and go for it. But mostly be honest and voice yourself.

]]> By: Rachel http://swampwaterdebutante.com/?p=1261&cpage=1#comment-3227 Rachel Wed, 23 Dec 2009 01:39:39 +0000 http://swampwaterdebutante.com/?p=1261#comment-3227 I feel the same way about my therapy but of course the week I don't see her, the drama falls from the sky. And always remember, YOU hired HER. YOU are PAYING her. If you don't want to talk about your weight loss you don't have to. I know I will never get to the place where if I see him I won't cause bodily harm, but I wouldn't obsess about it if I were you, fuck him. I feel the same way about my therapy but of course the week I don’t see her, the drama falls from the sky. And always remember, YOU hired HER. YOU are PAYING her. If you don’t want to talk about your weight loss you don’t have to.

I know I will never get to the place where if I see him I won’t cause bodily harm, but I wouldn’t obsess about it if I were you, fuck him.

]]> By: Miz Blo http://swampwaterdebutante.com/?p=1261&cpage=1#comment-3226 Miz Blo Tue, 22 Dec 2009 20:06:48 +0000 http://swampwaterdebutante.com/?p=1261#comment-3226 Keep your chin up, Dr Dana and you will find that perfect place for you to stop and everything will be fine. Hugs Keep your chin up, Dr Dana and you will find that perfect place for you to stop and everything will be fine.

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